I am in the middle of writing a new column about that very issue. But I will cut to the chase for you. You need someone you can trust to analyze this situation and your alternatives. My expert for all things long-term-care is Brian Gordon at 800-533-6242. Call him now, before the column is published and he is jammed!!
I trust him 100% to guide you to the right solution. Believe me, you are not alone! Column will be posted next week.