Un- filed taxes
My son, age 50, is living with me now since he was let go of his job over a year ago. He was not able to collect unemployment so I have been supporting him ever since. Trust me, not something I had planned when I retired. He has some drinking issues plus severe anxiety lending to his inability to get a job right now. We are working on it and he’s getting better but it takes time. He is still technically married and both him and his wife have always been terrible with money. They were so stupid that the last 6 or so years of them being together only she filed taxes because they got more money back that way. Consequently, he never filed taxes. He doesn’t want to even think about it but it’s not going away. I have been getting lots of emails, texts and phone calls about taking care of my tax problem. Somehow they got my number and are confusing the two of us. My only debt is my home, which I pay on time every month. Would you please help me with some suggestions on how to go about clearing this up. I know it’s his problem but with his mental state, I have to take the reins on this.
Thank you in advance.
Terry Says
Yes, you are about 30 years late in ‘taking the reins’ on this situation. And it could cost you your house. I’m going to start by giving you the number of the National Foundation for Credit Counseling — 800-388-2227. They will either be able to help — or recommend a low-cost attorney.
This is really your son’s problem, BUT the fact that YOU are getting mail and calls suggests that either you signed for him at some time, or he forged your signature. That could definitely put your house in jeopardy.
This baby needs to set up an appointment (you go with the first time to make sure YOUR credit is ok) and get things sorted out. First, he needs to get a divorce. Or move back in with her — and out of your life. Call that number and both of you go to the first meeting in person.
Please write back and let me know what happens.
